Is Infidelity Damaging Your Marriage?

You believed affairs were wrong, prior to falling into one.

What is happening now? To do things believed deep inside to be wrong, people usually do one (or combination) of the following:

1. Cease the action.

This choice is necessary to allow you to save your marriage. It may be a painful choice, but it is one that must be made if you have any chance of building your marriage into what you and your spouse want together.

2. Continue the conflict of your values long enough to change your own belief system.

This choice goes like this: You may say, “I know God hates divorce, BUT my lover loves God and I love God. Why would God let this happen if it wasn’t from Him?” You will try to get another to agree, to some extent, that the affair is justifiable. Convincing others helps to convince you. You may say things like, “I did everything to make my marriage work, but it was hopeless. Then, I found the person really meant for me.” You may try to keep the affair secret while actually going to marriage counseling. This gives the appearance of “working on your marriage.” When things don’t improve, you feel more justified and open about the affair. You may find what many have found: You and others don’t like the person you have become.

3. Go crazy.

The choice that divides you between spouse and lover keeps you in a state of perpetual anxiety, fear of discovery, and stress.

• You’re swept off your feet with extremely strong emotional feelings. These feelings are so strong you’ll do almost anything to continue experiencing them.
• You consider anyone interfering with your extramarital affair an enemy.
• You will lie to yourself and others, if necessary, to continue the relationship.

What you can DO to make things right?

Please, contact us to help your marriage.

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